Published by Linda on 20 Oct 2008 at 12:29 pm
The Cheerleader Model Of Donating
As you know if you read the comments, we informally adopted the beanbag chair project over the weekend; only about a hundred bucks to go. We like to move it move it, etc. Once that’s done, let’s finish off crayons. Kindergarteners without crayons? Surely, you jest. That one doesn’t have much left on it either, though, so we’d better set up playground equipment as a backup. Playground equipment may not seem as mission-critical as math textbooks or pencils, but honestly, kids spend a LOT of their time at school, and if their surroundings have no brightness to them, it’s tough to expect their psyches to fare well.
More generally, I wanted to mention a point about donating to Donors Choose that we haven’t really covered yet, but you’ll see it in a lot of the thank-you notes and in some of the posts that Sarah has gotten from teachers whose projects have been funded.
One of the best reasons to fund projects, and one of the best reasons to put your name to someone’s project, even if it is literally a handful of dollars, is the message you send to the teacher. As much as visitors to these parts tend to revere teachers, it’s important to remember how much time public employees in general and teachers in particular spend listening to people in public life accuse them of everything from ordinariness to incompetence to malfeasance to, in some cases, corruption.
You can hear in the notes that a lot of them feel alone. They may or may not hear much from busy parents; they may or may not feel supported in their communities. For a lot of teachers, I think it’s a daily battle not to become discouraged by slashed funding, salaries that range from modest to pitiful (particularly an issue for young teachers who haven’t had the chance to build their paychecks through seniority), and the general feeling that in an increasingly cynical society that sees community endeavors — particularly if they are government funded — as suspect, their hard work is being rewarded with abandonment of their enterprise.
One of the reasons I love this program is that one at a time, it sends a message to individual teachers that we have their backs. That we do value them, that we do understand, that we do know they need pencils and paper, that we do know they open their own wallets shamefully often, and that we care about their work and their worries. That’s one of the great things about a small donation. A teacher with a project can go to the donor page and see the list of donors, and as great as it is if somebody gives all the money — don’t get me wrong; if you can give a large amount, please do! — it must also be wonderful to see a long list of people who joined together to fund your project.
When you funded the folding tables, for instance, you not only bought the tables, but you said to Ms. G, “Dear Ms. G: We hear you. Signed: Marion, Nancy, Kate, Jennifer, Donna, Nicole, Melissa, Jessica, Debby, Gina, Jennifer, Rebecca, Amy, Jennifer, Cindy, Karen, Peggy, Kristie, Jenny, Jennifer, Jennifer, Karen, Kathy, Melanie, Brenda, Susan, and [Anonymous].” Just as it means something to all of you to picture all those kids sitting there doing their work at the tables you helped them get, I’m sure it means something to her to picture all of you, reading her proposal and “bless her heart”-ing to yourselves and taking out your credit cards because you know she is not a clock-puncher who’s waiting for her pension. She knows you are thinking of her, she knows you are thinking of her kids, and I have to think that maybe it staves off for a few days the sense that nobody is listening.
As Ms. G of the folding tables put it after her project was funded, “You give me the hope that your gift merits.”
So even if the amount you think you can do for the kids with your small donation doesn’t seem significant enough to warrant a donation, remember that your money also buys the communication of your concern to the teacher. It’s not the only way to demonstrate that you care, of course, but it is one way.
Valerie on 20 Oct 2008 at 2:05 pm #
Well said! I have tears in my eyes reading this. Fighting within the system can be very draining, and we should do anything we can to brighten the days of public education workers.
Julie on 20 Oct 2008 at 2:31 pm #
Playground equipment may not seem as mission-critical as math textbooks or pencils, but honestly, kids spend a LOT of their time at school, and if their surroundings have no brightness to them, it’s tough to expect their psyches to fare well.
So true. Also, as the mother of a preschooler and a kindergartner, I think they also learn better when they get a physical-activity break to get out some of that excess energy. If they don’t get to run around a little bit, they’re completely wound up by the end of the day! Playground equipment is a valid purchase, indeed.
Jennifer on 20 Oct 2008 at 8:43 pm #
Your Donors Choose posts have been hitting home so hard for me. I am sitting here imagining how profound it would be to see a list of kind strangers who donated to a cause that I championed for and was passionate about. As a social work student, I can relate to the concept of celebrating the small miracles in an often thankless profession. It gives me so much hope to see the projects you “adopt” reach their goals over and over.
Me and my lifelong love of dodgeball are silently cheerleading the Phys. Ed equipment project. It’s another biggie, but once the playground is done I hope some people will consider it if they haven’t yet! Maybe my fellow Jennifers from the folding tables project have a soft spot for gym equipment too. Seriously, that tickled me to see us all there in a row. Let’s keep it up!
stillshimpy on 22 Oct 2008 at 11:44 pm #
Hey Jennifer, by the time I stopped by today, the other projects had been funded…and you pointed the way to another worthy one. Thank you! A bit at a time, that’s a good way to get things done, particularly the big ones.
Linda, I just wanted to say thanks for these reminders. I spend a lot of my time thinking in passing that I should give to this worthy cause, or that. Sometimes I follow through, sometimes it just goes by the wayside. Thanks for a week of helping to make sure good intentions became good actions.
Molly on 23 Oct 2008 at 7:18 am #
If you suggest another project for your readers to tackle, might I recommend
http://www.donorschoose.org/donors/proposal.html?id=212645&challengeid=18975&zone=0
this one? PAPER, for chrissakes! That’s unbearably depressing. The school can’t even give their teachers *paper*.
Debby on 23 Oct 2008 at 2:37 pm #
Paper!!!!!?????? For God’s sake, what is going on? I live in Canada, so I guess I am removed from this all, (hasn’t stopped me from donating, softy that I am) but jeez louise. Paper. One ream they give her?
I went to donate, and thank goodness it has been fufilled, but what about other classes, other years? What do they do?
Paper!
Now that I think about it, my son gets a list every year on the first day of school, it has everything I need to send for him. It includes pencils and paper and duo tangs and glue and erasers and pencil sharpeners, and Kleenex(!) and markers, and so on.
I guess I never really thought about it, because I have a decent paying job, and family who would help if I didn’t, but what about the kids whose parents can’t get them this stuff? Their teachers end up on Donors Choose, I guess.
This is all so sad………….